Month: September 2022

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Self-Elevation: Friends Become Enemies When Opportunity Knocks

Well actually your haters were never your friends. They were always your haters, your brain was protecting you while you danced with the devil.

As important haters make you when they’re nosing around your life, they never give you that much attention when they’re disguised as your friends,coworkers,and even family members. Unfortunately. Positive energy is a preference over anything else.

Word in the world of elevation is that anytime you’re actively elevating, the people around begin to expose themselves as other than they pretended to be. My thoughts are that this moon phase behavior has got to be a production of the Matrix.

I’ve had to privatize several of my online accounts and pretty much isolate myself as these beings shed their forms for their true negative selves. Annoying yes, but not much of a task considering online is not where I make my money.

Pardon me,but I’m not a fool,and I’m not interested in being the first (anything) to stick it out or prove I’m super emotionless while being hated on. As a matter of fact, I thought most of the people I associate myself with were more prosperous than me. But what successful person has time and space to hate if they are truly content and truly successful? 🤨

They don’t hate me…I have a simplified life and take public transportation everywhere. But it turns out they don’t hate me. They hate the light! When I cloak I’m fine and the enemy is happy in thinking I’m as they are. My light turns on and wham! I’ve heard that before from others. And this is the second time in just over twelve months it’s happened to me. Light off, I’m fine..light on everybody is up in arms…light off…light on…lol! I think I’ll stay on…now that I know for myself. Haters gonna hate regardless once you’re known.🤣

And God simply said to all of this–senseable or not, “Your enemies will never prosper, but they’re welcome to form.”

Devils get behind me! Thank you father and mother God! For protecting me and showing me things hidden to me that I would otherwise go long distances in unawareness.

Thank you lord for being in my mind body and soul.

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Self-Assessment: When It’s You And Not Me

It’s not me it’s you.

1 Peter says, Be self-controlled and alert. The enemy prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

Some people’s dense mood infects others. If they’re not smiling or happy they don’t want anyone else expressing contentment. Some people feed off others’ energies as food. And some people JUST like negative energy. We push forward. Bring your problem to the table not your mood. Sometimes we end up meeting about people’s moods and don’t even know it, whether it’s the facilitator’s or an attendee.

As leaders, the clock is important, and so is what we meet about, but more importantly, our mood and tone sets the pace of the meeting.

Even the best facilitators have bad days. We should check ourselves before conducting a meeting:
How am I feeling?
Am I wearing appropriate clothing?
What am I projecting?
Does this need to be said?
Is this a good time to meet?
Can I reschedule it?

No, we can’t always sway people all the time, but usually the majority of attendees will be on the same page as the facilitator and the audience. They small-talk or prepare themselves and set each other’s tones sometimes, in agreement that everyone has a common goal for a certain amount of time.

However, if you have that ONE who always brings in a negative “can’t be bothered with this” tone, you gotta check them privately.

“Hey listen, for the last three meetings I noticed your mood has been objective. What’s going on? Do you want to talk?” Whether they take up your invite or not, their mood will be noticeably changed at the next meeting.

Sometimes people just want to be seen. Some people need to be checked too though. You’ve gotta check them and let them know they are seen. If we don’t check them, they find more and more comfort in feeding off you and your audience.

The enemy may or may not want to take your place, that doesn’t matter. What matters is they don’t want you where you are. The enemy studies you and look for ways to agitate you and bring you to their level. They use other people too. That’s how the devil works in us if we allow low ways to guide our thinking and being. Devils seek to destroy nothing else.

1 Peter says, Be self-controlled and alert. The enemy prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

2 Timothy says God did not give us the spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power of love and of self-discipline.

And if you’re following the way of your most high God, and carrying self-awareness and care about other people, then you can silently say, it’s not me it’s you. And say a lil prayer for them while covering your well-being. A Psalms perhaps…

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Self-Love: Stop Sinning on Purpose and Have a Heart

Some people have a softness about them that others mistake for weakness. I’d rather have a strong skeleton than a hard shell.

My softness is approachable and my strong skeleton withstands a lot of unnecessary and unwanted negativity from outside.

A strong heart is important. In a place where so many people have created hard shells, it isn’t because they distrust outside of themselves, it’s because they don’t trust their own heart.

Several scriptures seem to support people or encourage people to avoid trusting their own hearts. Then again we tend to seek out people places and things that reflect our own thinking, that includes scripture.

A faint-hearted person will seek out a scripture that confirms their pain and seems to tell them their heart is not to be trusted and they are wicked for their human choices that brought them to consequences. (Managing from the outside)
See “Jeremiah 17:9, Ecclesiastes 9:3 and so on…

Whereas a strong-hearted person will seek out scripture to further enhance their hearts direction to manage from the soul. (Managing from the inside) Hebrews 4;12, 2Timothy 3:16, 2 Corinthians 5;17 and so on…

What is to be cleared up is that we can trust our hearts, we can’t trust a sin-filled heart. Sin means to miss the mark (think of archery). We want to hit the center, or as close to it as possible. The further away from the center we hit (life’s situations getting the best of us) the less likely we trust our hearts.

However I’ve taken on another perspective. Not only do we get upset when we don’t hit the center (bulls eye) , we start to purposely aim anywhere but the center. Thus, we create distrust in our own hearts. Distrust does not come from other people. It comes from us not being aligned within our center.

A person who depends on artificial oxygen long enough, over time, will stop trusting their own lungs.

Trust comes from how we choose to respond or react to people places and things. When we REspond favorably we build more trust, when we REact to unfavorable conditions, we build distrust. Trusting our selves can place us in the position to become more mindful of our selves in keeping a strong heart even in the face of weakness.

People who trust themselves will often take RESPONSibilty by seeking through the heart of matters. Their REaction is to bring issues back to oneness through fellowship. While distrustful people abhor the heart in favor of distancing themselves from RESPONSibilty. Their REaction to matters is to abandon ship and separate from the center in order to “get back at”.

So when someone tells you to not trust your heart, it’s like telling you to don’t trust God and stay away. God is the center, the midst, the essence, the bullseye, whatever you consider it…God is the universe heart beat. Inaction is sin, plotting is sin, seething is sin, discouragement is sin. One of the first things sin does is break us from the inside, not the outside. Missing the mark enough times can cause us to put the brakes on our hearts.

While no human is perfect, one can take on RESPONSibility and make more mindful choices. One can still embrace their softness and stand against strong winds of negativity instead of falling weak and missing the mark, and then seeking to separate people from their center. A strong heart is what keeps the body alive. A strong heart is what keeps a family together, and a strong heart is what provides light in any darkness.

A saying goes that hurt people hurt people. But a strong heart heals. Instead of envying or bullying soft people, take a page out of their book and ask yourself, “How can they stand me after all I do to them?”

Ezekiel 36:26 notes, “I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart.”

Seek within yourself if what you’re doing is needed or asked for before you berate others. We’re all fighting battles unseen. Have a heart.