…some folks have short fuses for their own family/friends/man/woman…while loving anyone else. They even says hi to dogs on streets. Oh gosh..and they’re mad at you every other day…and you gotta pull nails to get the issue out of them. But they can easily talk shit about you…to anyone else.
And it’s usually some dumb shit, about you “ignoring” them while you’re off healing yourself (probably from the last dumb shit they THOUGHT you did, but didn’t) or working or just taking care of your business…and/or your children. If you observe this, assess your template and the company you keep.
That shit ain’t healthy. Plain and simple. Urge them to see a psychiatrist/or stop drugging/drinking(and not everyone can handle burning marijuana)…in a concerned way. Without accusing them, “I’m concerned about your wellness. I’ve noticed we continue to have disagreements frequently.”
Here’s a great motivational interview question you can ask him/her, “What do you think about talking to someone who specializes in behavioral conflict resolution?”