Self-Actualization: The Empress and The Queen

Back to Business!

I had a majority of fun summer. But it’s back to work. This human BEing is baseline cool if you wake up, work, lie down, die. But many don’t get that luxury.
For the sake of familiarity, we’re saying “Black Women.” I’ve spent much time in the realms working in simulations and interacting with black women as a black woman–past, present, and “future.” The head of several of our programs is a black woman whom I greatly admire. During simulations, I thought I did okay sometimes, and at other times I would void the sim if it became too intense. There’s nothing like the actualization of BEing a “black” woman, especially in current Earth.

I’m in a good space and caught up in my studies in having spent the last two weeks intentionally and intensely studying and upgrading my knowledge base about the many different human personalities and their assigned traits. Specifically, Female Narcissism, Gaslighting, Sociopathy, Adult-bullying, Esteem, Alpha female, Empathy…and the uprising of the QUEEN personality in recent years.

The QUEEN embodies so many negative and positive traits and can be attributed to impoverished and prestigious females. The Queen is uplifted by its admirers based on measures of materialism, physical seduction, or intelligence. This personality is often confused with the lesser-used QUEAN. Queens/Queans are actually the cause of the demise of several ancient civilizations. Lady Of Cao being one of the deadliest Queens among a few. While many black women welcome the title and the pedestal it affords them, many black women also find the title offensive and object to being labeled with the title.

While the name is used socially, the EMPRESS personality is not widely accepted in human actualization, as little is known about its embodiment, other than it works from the Hidden Realms. The Empress personality may be seen as salty (inactive principle of Nature). Salt is a matter which must be energized by Sulphur (masculine principle) to maintain the equilibrium of the Universe. Therefore without her emperor, she can become moody, at times. She does experience human actuality to realize energy motion or to make systemic structural corrections. The Empress attributes are universal; she spends much time moving between frequencies. She will settle on a base frequency and BE accordingly and work from that base if she is married. Empress personality cannot easily be “copied” into the human format. The initiate is chosen, invited, or indoctrinated by ancestral birthright. The Empress is often confused for a Queen until the difference is witnessed in their personalities or verbal correction is granted. Her earthly name would be NUBIA. In the universal hierarchy, EMPRESS is just under GODDESS and above QUEEN.

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