Self-Empowerment Self-Realization

Self-Realization: The Reel World vs The Real World

During the pandemic I watched mainstream television and used social media, something that I didn’t do pre-pandemic. ALOT of what was reflected on the internet and television explained the current state of three dimensions of the masses, and is certainly different than when I watched television as a youth.

The current social climate is expressing spiritual stagnation and condemnation of others more than self empowerment to rise above. A mass persecution. One can give good advice, have good intent, be of good cheer and others will find a way to “pull” them into the mix and transform their character, and sometimes just their personality over all.

Social Stress, cancel culture, post c-vid stress disorder are just a few subjects of post traumatic stress disorder. We can’t just bunch all problems under one umbrella and call it ptsd.

It’s being carried over into the work place, causing what seemingly appears to be vicarious trauma, burn out, or compassion fatigue. That’s not it. There’s the blending of virtual and real life. The reel world and the real world.

I had began to feel uninspired and put off in even watching my peers “go with the flow”. When I reached out to others, it seem they were afraid to speak up, in not wanting to seem as “complainers”. Even I got caught up in the “just be grateful” talk.

I have a choice, So I turned the television off and closed all personal social media outlets. I could not say or post a thing without being judged or an unwarranted assumption that could’ve easily been cleared up with a conversation! It was not pleasant!

I am blessed to have maintained my heart through all adversities. Empathy and Sympathy are cool cousins that everybody claims to know and like but feel awkward when they’re around, but Compassion is the black sheep of the family.

Compassion is the one who is either put out or goes out, through whatever circumstance, and gets caught up in situations that takes them through so much adversity to the heart of the matter, and turns and around provides a way for others to pick themselves up and still make it through the door.

All while going through their own adversities.

The fun side is having a whole heap of stories to share…all kinds.

My brother Yeshua, with his compassionate self, did pick up from his throne to travel across verses, put himself through so much drama, with a good INTENT to help his peoples ascend beyond their current circumstances. And oh lord did he have a hard time! But he never faltered nor wavered, even when he was misunderstood. He operated from the sacred heart.

Ironically after all that drama the people gave him it wasn’t until just before his ascension that he realized how unjust humans can be…not toward him…but toward each other….
and that everybody has to do the work for themselves.

I plan to spread my wings a little more and continue to help others rise above, and reserve my judgement as God’s job. God is not going to ask me what did anyone else do with their life…but most assuredly I will be judged by my own heart. Thank God!


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