Coming out with your hidden successes will reveal to you more about people places and things currently around you than anyone could ever tell you about yourself. If everybody seems to know you…are you truly seeing yourself through your eyes or others? From which point in your life?
What is your answer if God asks, “Tell me about yourself?”
We are absolutely never as bad as people judge us. Open your destiny and be engulfed by your own light. Nobody judges the past…they judge what they see right in front of them and even that can be skewed, without knowing the past and no inclination of a future.
People grimace at physical scars…but have no idea how they got there.
I’m not wearing scars yet people grimace at my revealation of having been raised through the foster system. Then suddenly they change up on me as if a thousand scars suddenly appeared…and then with the closed off comments.
“Oh! You don’t look like it!” 😐
“I’m so sorry!”😐
“That’s terrible you had to go through that!”😐
I’m like,
What does foster care look like?🤨
Why are you apologizing?🤨
Who said it was terrible?🤨
The appropriate open-ended response would be (if at all),
“What was that like?”🤔
Curiosity would ask,
“Tell me more.”🤔☕
This is why I say,
Be your own judge…you know what you’ve been through, have done and have not done, and are doing. The best way to consciously have the future you desire is to work at it now…whether publicly or in private.
If you see a rock planted in the dirt that doesn’t mean there’s nothing under earth to trip you up. If you see a boulder planted in the dirt, that doesn’t mean there’s deep problems under earth.
Reach back and share with the people that struggled with you and encouraged you and helped you out of those dark places…then launch yourself forward into your season!
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Self-Empowerment: Judge Your Own Self
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